Los Angeles-based eharmony (www.eharmony.com) launched in the United States in 2000 with its patented Compatibility Matching System® which allows eharmony members to be matched with compatible persons with whom they are likely to enjoy a long-term relationship. Millions of people of all ages, ethnicities, national origins and religious and political beliefs have used eharmony’s Compatibility Matching System to find compatible long-term relationships.
User Experience on eHarmony.com
The user experience on eHarmony is 100% personalized for each individual user, but also very restricted. This isn’t a site to throw out “Hi, how are you” or other generic messages and wait for responses. Instead, users can only see those people the site has identified as potentially good matches for them (so that means there are no browsing or searching features available). Members discover others based on the intentionally limited number of matches the site shows them each day.
The more one uses the site. The more matches, and encounters that are possible. But due to the nature of only seeing a hand-picked yet small percentage of the total site membership each day. The online dating process on eHarmony is slower and more calculated than that on other online dating sites. This, of course, could be a deterrent to some. But with the tried and true success, eHarmony has in facilitating lasting romances. And marriages, in addition to numerous awards the site has received over the years. It’s reasonable to consider dropping your need for instant gratification or mass attention in order to achieve real love.
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Fake profiles and photos
This is like all the other “better” dating sites is really only interested in making money – they do little to stop the awful abuse of women on line. As a more mature woman it is even worse, words like MILF are not blocked and men with fake profiles and photos not banned but given several chances to abuse again and again.
gefranztmb - August 2, 2022
I pay a lot of money
I pay a lot of money for this app, and several times a day, I can’t get into the mobile app, even with the correct password. When I write to the support service, I always get the same answer to reset my password. I must have done this ten times now. For all the money, an inferior app.
womanchoice0f - July 10, 2022
The absolute worst experiences
Matched with people outside my age range, education, income, and common interests. I had to block 3 of them because of rude messages. I had messages from guys. They were very inappropriate. One guy was looking for a woman to present information at seminars on sexual compatibility or so he said. Another one was a convicted felon found guilty twice with 2 different women of domestic violence, stalking, and strangulation. A couple more were Trump supporters who harassed me after I said I was not interested. The absolute worst experiences I’ve ever had with dating.
thomasschmitt79 - June 1, 2022
A definite lack of substance
Customer service no where to be found, good luck if you need help except for your payment! A definite lack of substance.
paphacishhh - April 1, 2022
Don't join this service!
Don’t join this service! They take your money and won’t refund it. They send you profiles with no pictures after you tell them you want pictures. Or pictures of people who don’t respond because they are no longer using the service. Or scammers that will respond to you. You will be wasting your time and money. Then they won’t allow you to delete your profile so they can continue to use it. They themselves are scammers! Don’t fall for it like I did!
abadaeth70 - March 9, 2022
The website is terrible
If I could give no stars I would. There is no filter. Age, location, none of this matters.They just send anyone who is of the opposite sex. And the profile is useless. No important questions are asked, and it wouldn’t matter anyway. The website is terrible. Please don’t bother with this site if you haven’t already signed up. Its basically tone deaf and useless.
fonctionachatbc - January 6, 2022
overall 1 star
As you can see it’s an overall 1 star review because when you try to cancel they still renew your contract
aljkavee3 - December 14, 2021
It's full of scam
It’s full of scam accounts who’s write to you some naughty stuff than after a little bit of chatting they are try to lure you to a different site and register there so the two of you can continue chatting… And I am pretty sure that is a scam site and will empty your bank account.
donmasta044a - November 9, 2021
Keep away
I went on this site for free. I did not sign up to any agreement. On looking on line there fee is $9.99 or thereabouts a month. For the last two months since I viewed their site they have deducted $99.00. I lodged a complaint with PayPal and they said I had a payment agreement wit B2. As far as I know I never agreed to any deductions let alone $99.00 a month. All I did was take up the free offer and have a look. Keep away from this site it is not safe if they can trick you like that. Also there should be stronger consumer protection against such people.
brechedig1w - October 17, 2021
THIS APP IS A SCAM
THIS APP IS A SCAM. I’ve used this site on and off for several years with no issue, but have never met anyone genuine — only men interested in hookups. As soon as I decided to bite the bullet and pay for a premium subscription, I was randomly and arbitrarily banned. I went over their guidelines repeatedly and had not broken any of them. I was kind and respectful. I represented myself authentically. I sent original messages. All of this in spite of the fact I often received suggestive and explicit messages from men and they did nothing about it. When I tried to ask WHY I was banned, they refused to say why — just took my money and refused to provide a refund. There is absolutely no way to speak to a human or customer service representative directly. They have absolutely no care for their customers and are clearly misogynistic despite proclaiming themselves to be a feminist app. RUN
xlovingxyoohxjy - August 27, 2021
This app is dangerous
This app is dangerous as hell lately. The male side is extremely predatory and there’s more than enough stories of people being sexually abused and their abusers still being kept on this site. The women side is full of pathetic little cretins begging for followers or onlyfans subs. It is, as a literal fact, 94% people posting their links now. They lie and steal your money too, they’ll drop dozens of fake likes and when you try the paid option they vanish. Imagine an app owned by a women trying to be different and safer and all this capitalist tramp cares about is money. Doesn’t kick rapists, fake profiles, pedophile bait, hundreds of underage girls, hundreds of women lying about their age. Absolutely disgusting. Use reddit to get OF followers and if you’re desperate for instagram followers?get a life or leave because it’s pathetic how desperate some of these people are
deckdeckgooseiu - August 5, 2021
Im very happy
Im very happy with the one I have met we have become a couple now I thought things would not work and and I would not meet anyone until I met arech Im very thankful I met him
gumal9i - May 11, 2021
It took a long time
It took a long time to meet someone. Three yrs. They live in another city. Don’t know if it will work out or not but he is a nice man and he loves me.
tarheaveromht - April 19, 2021
Crappy site!
Crappy site!
bhruachmm - March 14, 2021
Poor matches
All the service they provide is throwing poor matches at you with no regard to your preferences or search criteria. But you can be assured that they will charge you more than you expect or authorize.
isimisoo6 - February 24, 2021
Total scam
Total scam, get a million views that mean nothing. You get a message and talk back you get nothing and the conversation disappears
messajessa79w - February 11, 2021
Site is a rippoff
Site is a rippoff…closed my account for no reason and stole my money….this site is horrible!
ricesushi02ph - January 24, 2021
Was a great experience
Was a great experience and I found a woman who I was compatible with and really connected with…. The platform was a good exercise so I thank for that.
garbs516yc - December 7, 2020
Using this site for a very long time
Using this site has helped me to find partners nearby that I never would have met usually and I can see myself using this site for a very long time.
biasiic - November 25, 2020
Recommending it to everyone!
This dating site is the best dating site I ever seen… I was searching for dating sites that are good for so long, but I couldn’t find one, but then I found this one, and I am very happy with it. Recommending it to everyone!
soosenhi - June 29, 2020
I think it is worth it
I think it is worth it
mystikkle - June 22, 2020
Their algorithm is great
I used the site for less time than expected. because I found a great partner faster than expected. Their algorithm is great at finding compatible people, plus they have cute personality and other tests.
ukujikelagt - May 11, 2020
This place is great
This place is great
3cera0q - April 30, 2020
The site is great
This is the best way to find a partner when you are divorced man who is travelling a lot like me. The site is great, simple and girls are smart, beautiful and very friendly. I have only good things to say about everything. If you ask me should you try I’ll say yes, go for it.
essetbaryzm - March 23, 2020
I feel so lucky I found her
I met someone who I am extremely naturally compatible with. We are going to make a go at it and see how things go, but I have always hoped for someone like this lady and I feel so lucky I found her
tarukwq - March 21, 2020
I was an enjoyable experience
Enjoyed talking/texting with applicant’s looking for their mates I was an enjoyable experience and I learned to use good communication technique’s
tripolijuoy - March 5, 2020
Wonderful experience
I meet a couple of ladies here. Met on a dated two of them. But then I met a wonderful woman long distance and we decided to become friends. It has been three months and we have decided to meet up and know each other to possibly start a relationship. I’m super excited and looking up to this wonderful experience.
humjiasr - March 4, 2020
Stay away
Stay away If your looking for love a grocery store is a better place find it,over this site.
oliviaardeyu3 - December 30, 2019
I had to cancel my credit card
There’s no way to contact anyone to file a complaint so I had to cancel my credit card so they wouldn’t steal anymore of my money.
karurukanys - December 29, 2019
Nothing but a scam.
I won’t bother with describing worthlessness of their so-called “services”, since that is more than adequately documented in the other reviews. What really pisses me off is that you can’t access your account to delete it until you pay for a membership. Nothing but a scam.
seehaufeo0 - December 2, 2019
AWFUL, HORRIBLE WASTE OF MONEY
AWFUL, HORRIBLE WASTE OF MONEY. Go to any bus stop, and you will have better luck.
palpeerir - November 26, 2019
Eharmony is perhaps the most dispiriting
Eharmony is perhaps the most dispiriting, depressing, and soul-crushing experience on the entire internet.
inceachat1 - November 2, 2019
It as joke
Have been on the site now a little while and a waste of time. Have tried to use their ‘highly recommended’ messaging service but never receive any replies. Are the girls on it as joke? Also keep getting loads of spam emails with people wanting to meet me. Ha Ha I’ve sussed you out Eharmony.com. You just want money and I won’t be paying for this!
parzystyur - November 2, 2019
What a waste of time
What a waste of time! I wasted mine, please don’t waste yours! Racially bias, the white ladies on here still think they are living in the white segregation days if the 60’s what a shame! Racial totally!
iannottiar - October 13, 2019
One thing i hate about these dating websites
One thing i hate about these dating websites that you have to pay to message people its bloody disgusting that you have to pay to message someone but it doesn’t they are going to reply back to you and they don’t tell you until you try to send a message to a girl you like
federballke - September 17, 2019
This site has no security
This site has no security, there are so many fake profiles and scammers. I personally was scammed 4 times on this site. When they are going to Europe for business and need money, RED FLAGS. I’ve never had so many issues with hacking my profile, trying to get my credit card number. But the scariest is when you are stalked, police have to be called and Our Time does nothing because it’s against their policy. Never, ever ever again!!!!
stollingf9 - May 9, 0222